Healthy relationships tend to be broken if not properly taken care of. This is a very sensitive issue. Often it’s broken because of trivial things. And when it happens, we use to have a lot of unanswered questions to answer for. Such like:
What are my mistakes?
Why did this end between us?
Being unable to find the right answer, we give ourselves consolation by thinking that we are just not made for each other. He or she was not meant for me. We just grew apart and what happened is good for both of us and blah blah blah.
But actually this is not the real matter. There must have something deeper in a Healthy Relationship and we need to find that out. At least for sake of our next probable relationship. By knowing the inner meaning and learning the mistakes we can find the true meaning of it. And for this very purpose here I am sharing today the top five mistakes that ruined healthy relationships and how to be saved from them. Read these carefully:
None is Perfect:
Perfection is a myth and not a real world idea. We are mere human beings not heavenly creature. Faults are in our blood and it is so natural. But when we find out a little faults in our spouses, we lose hope and start thinking that everything is over. Well stop thinking like that. Everybody have ups and downs you cannot see in bare eyes. So stop comparing your life with others. Rather try to understand your partner for the sake of a healthy relationship. He or she may have some bad qualities but also has some good qualities too. You just need to change your perception a little to see it. Who knows may be you find your perfect one in your old partner after reading this.
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Compromising is a big issue:
What is compromising in healthy relationships? Let me explain. Compromise is when two people are arguing for a solution and being unable to find one, one of them give up his/her idea and agrees to another’s. Here the loser one gives up his right to the hope of winning in the next time while they will be arguing on anything. But this is not the right solution as it does not work mathematically all the time. So what we will do. We will find the right solution. Something falls in middle. We will give it a more thought and make it more acceptable for both of us. Thus there will be no loser.
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Avoid Trash Talking in Healthy Relationships:
Trash talking is like poison in healthy relationships. We go through a lot. So we sometimes get angry or upset a little bit. We should be more careful in such times as most of the trash talking’s coming out from our mouth in this kind of situation. And this is a very crucial moment to be self-restrained. If we think about it before and trained ourselves for such moments, we can make our relationships healthier.
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Don’t Try To Change Your Loved Ones:
Do you forget with whom you fall in love with? Most of us subconsciously try to change his/her beloved. This is how you tell them that they are not perfect. It makes a bad impression which affects healthy relationships. Rather try to accept them as they are. Maybe they are little faulty but try to know themselves and you don’t need to make them remember it again and again. But if accept and appreciate their love, they may change with times naturally and appreciate you more for understanding their feelings.
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Take a break:
Give yourself some alone time. Yes, I am serious. Don’t be glued with each other like cover and pages of a book. Give yourself sometimes with friends or relatives. Making a little space is sometimes necessary for healthy relationships. If you don’t stay a little apart from each other, how do you both miss each other? And missing makes love deeper. So next time doesn’t freak out when your spouse told you he/she needs some time off. You can also utilize that time for yourself too. Think about it.
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Thought Over Conclusion:
Let’s just say you both share single beds for each. Well, that’s ok if it is comfortable for both of you and it does not mean that you love each other any less than who shares a single bed together. In reality, we all do mistakes but some of us learn from them and that’s how we make an exception. So if you find your past kind of matching with these mistakes I just discussed, don’t punish yourself but try to learn and be an exception. This is truly why I write these article for.
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