Fights in friends are very common. Sometimes it becomes so serious that almost cost the friendship. This is really bad. We don’t want to lose our dear friends. But eventually, sometimes things got so worse that we never expect. So what should we do if our best friend got angry? There is definitely something that can help and we should take some steps before it’s too late.
Think Before Act
Think before involved in a fight with your best friend. We tend to get heated sometimes. Don’t just quarrel with your friends on trivial things as at the end you will find it just not worthy. Before start serious arguing with your best friends think twice about the situation. Think about your friend’s mood too. Maybe he/she is already upset for some other reason and it is not a good time for starting a conversation.
Try To Be Reasonable
If necessary argue with valued reason in a lower tone with your best friend. Try to convince him/her rationally. Or you can just switch the mood by creating funny situation smartly while things getting worse. If you are careful enough, you don’t need to worry about losing your best friend. But if you are already involved in a fight with your dearest friend, here are some tips to resolve that well.
Best Friend Got Angry: Apologize Quickly
If your best friend got angry on you apologize quickly. Don’t waste time in thinking of whose fault it was. Your friend may be thinking the same thing as you are. Say sorry even if it was your friend who starts the fight. Hesitating to take the first step may end your relationship for good. Stop hesitating and say ‘I am so sorry’. Don’t just say sorry in a cold tone. It is important to add feelings when you are really sorry and your friend need to see that too. Otherwise, it can get worse.
And don’t start giving reasons on your behalf right after saying sorry as it will ruin everything. Say you are sorry for how you reacted and you were having a horrible day that showed in the fight. Admit only your faults and not those you did not do. Don’t recount your friend’s fault. You should give him/her enough time to rethink about the whole thing after your confession.
Don’t be sticky
After the fight, you can say sorry in person. If not possible, SMS or just writing an apology letter would do. But don’t call again and again if you don’t get a reply. Give your friend a bit space to miss you too. Being clingy may worsen the situation than before.
Be nice and friendly
There is a universal trick
You know your friend for a long time sure. So you can plan a little something for your friend. It should not be so big but something special between you and your friend. Your buddy will definitely find it special and appreciate you. But don’t screw up things. Remember that it should not be looked like a bribe or something.
Who to involve in between
Don’t involve your guardian or parents in the fight if it is not super necessary. Find a friend who genuinely care for you and took his/her help to convince your friend can be a good idea.
Give it some time
Go slow. Maybe your buddy is not ready to accept your apology right now. He/she needs some time to cool down. You definitely should give them that. Maybe everything resolved after he/she misses you for a little long. Who knows?
Also Read: How To React When Someone Behave Badly
Friendship is not a one-way track. So if your friend is not paying heed to your profound love and affection. Stop stretching it anymore. Maybe it is time to give it up for your own benefit. Otherwise, it will give you more pain later. Go head to a fresh one and move on. At the end, I can say if your friend feels for you in the same way you do, nothing can separate you two ever.
Note: If your best friend got angry with you, try these tips and it will definitely sort out. You can also add your tips in the comment section bellow.