We often face bad behaviors. Sometimes it’s about one time and sometimes it’s become a regular thing. So what we should do when someone behaving badly with us on a daily basis. When it’s a one time case, it does not matter that way. We somehow manage to forget that. But when it’s become a regular basis matter, it’s really hard for us to tolerate and live on. We often don’t understand how to react or face the situation. And from there the inner pain start which affects our daily life. Well, there are some important things to understand first.
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Guilt and Jealousy
We, human beings are full of guilt and jealousy. By not being heavenly creature we are prone to behave as we think or feel inside. When we upset or not feeling well, it shows in our behavior. And if we are not careful enough it can be a burden for some others around us.
Behaving Badly by Fear
People often behaving badly because of fear. And there are types of fear that drive a person’s behavior. If someone behaving badly to you, don’t just react that way back to that person. It’s not really helping but you should try to understand him/her first and then decide.
Understand The Psychology
Let’s say there is someone in the office who just don’t like you or humiliate you every time. He makes you feel lower in front of everybody. Well in this kind of cases most of the time it is not your fault. Most of the cases the reason maybe that person feels insecure in front of you or feels lower himself when facing you. He blames you all the time so that he feels good. Behaving badly in this way just can not be tolerated.
Often people try to show them as the bad guy to others. Actually, it helps them to feel better about themselves and they can feel like the good guy. But just because they write this story, doesn’t make it real.
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Other Possible Reasons
There may be some other issue like a home or relation problem. You may make that person remember of some other guy whom he or she does not like much. Every time he/she sees you, become angrier. Or maybe behaving badly to you makes that person feel better.
If someone behaving badly to you, it might be possible that he or she receives the same from others. So here every bad behavior is like an invitation of love and appreciation. He or she may want someone to understand and take care of them. You can be that person as here is your chance.
So what you do in return is the most important thing here. Bad behaviors can not be corrected by behaving badly yourself too. You can try to understand them and accept them as they are. It may help them in long run and there is a chance for them of being good again.
You can behave more actively to them and appreciate them more than they deserve. If you do that they may start living on your perception and become a better person than they are today.
As I told you before what they are doing is not in your hand but what you do is. So make it a good move. Don’t just return the favor by behaving badly to them. Prove that you are what you are and that cannot be changed by others influences. Show the world the best of you. Don’t run by ego. Rather try to think little more positively if it is good for people around you.
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